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Letter to My Sister

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HI Stacy! Hope Heaven is treating you well.  We sure miss you here on earth.  I am sure you are watching us daily, but just in case you are missing the finer details let me fill you in on your kids.  They, just like me, miss you.  We all wish that tomorrow was a day of celebration not a day of remembrance.  But I guess we should celebrate that you are not in pain anymore and that all three of yours children are being well taken care of. Hey did you hear that I am FINALLY getting married?  You would totally like the guy.  He's so great.  He's a big goofball like me but very loyal, caring and helpful.  He treats us all with respect and has only the best intentions when it comes to the kids.  We will rock this parenting thing together.  These kids will have an additional person to fill them up with love. So what have you missed in the last 5 years?  Unfortunately a lot.  It makes me sad sometimes to remember what t...

As the day fades

on my sisters 34th birthday I find myself ending the day like usual on her birthday or anniversary...lying in bed cuddling with a Nacho, crying, watching the slide show and now blogging.  (Slide show from the service-  https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10151493365525259&id=599790258  )  Lying here my mind starts to wander from s ome healthy logical questions to others not so, yet I wonder any way.  I wonder what a birthday party in Heaven looks like.  I wonder if everyone you've ever known goes or if it is just family? Does the big guy make an appearance?  Is the saying up there...it ain't over until the "big guy" sings?   Do you get gifts or because your are in heaven and you already have all you could want is their presence gift enough?  Can I get fireworks set off for my birthday every year in heaven? Did Stacy have a good day? Does she miss us? How does she deal with the extreme emotions she must be having being able to see ...