Perfect People

I understand that everyone has reasons to things they do in life.  Heck I have made plenty mistakes and some were doozies.  But I also realize that I am not perfect and nobody is.  I find is extremely sad that there are people in this world that forget how much crap they have done in life and the consequences of those actions on themselves and others.  I get the desire to get things right the second or third time around, but you also need to think out your steps a bit more.

Making blanket statements, large actions can and usually do come back to bite you in the ass.  It may not be today, but resentment or mental abuse shows up in time.  I know that not everyone in this world will agree with my statement or the situation BUT I am entitled to my opinion and to state my opinion.  

I will not let this or any other disagreement come between me and my family.  I love and cherish everyone one of you whether I see or talk to you daily or only a few times a year.  Happiness, security and making hard decisions are necessary to raise kids.  Fear to misbehave is one thing kids could have a healthy dose of, but fear of you finding out they miss their family or are afraid to be honest with you is a totally other thing.  Fear of your wrath for a certain desire is ridiculous.

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